DON'T BE LEECH
You shouldn't always approach others with your hand out, asking for something. At some point, you need to have value to offer in return. When people help you, learn to reciprocate. If you constantly take without giving back, people will begin to resent your presence because they know you'll only show up when you need something. Think about those in your life who only reach out—whether by call, text, or visit—when they want something from you. If you only hear from them when they need a favor, it's time to recognize them for what they are: leeches.
If you keep feeding leeches, they’ll drain you dry. You might feel inexplicably exhausted, struggle to manage your time, or find that your personal progress has stalled. The cause could be the leeches in your life. They might be the very reason you’re not achieving your goals or experiencing the peace you desire.
While compassion is important, don’t let it lead you to sacrifice your own stability. Be discerning in your generosity. Ensure that your support is going to the right people and causes. Remember, you’re not the savior of the world. Overextending yourself to help everyone can rob you of the energy and resources you need to thrive. It’s neither healthy nor wise to take on the burden of helping too many people alone. When the time comes for you to seek support, notice how few of those you’ve helped will step up for you.
People often stick around just to benefit from your resources or connections. While this might be expected from strangers or casual acquaintances, you need to be especially vigilant with friends and family. Leeches aren't always obvious. We grant loved ones access to parts of our lives that we keep closed off to others, making it harder to see their true intentions. This is why you must exercise greater caution and protect yourself when dealing with those closest to you—they could be the most draining leeches of all. Regular self-reflection will help you identify whether the people around you are uplifting or siphoning your energy.
We often make ourselves vulnerable to those we trust and believe have our best interests at heart. However, it’s essential to continuously evaluate these relationships. Sometimes, the very people we love are the ones subtly sabotaging us, hindering our journey to success. You cannot allow others to drain your resources and energy without leaving anything for yourself.
It’s tough to consider that loved ones might be leeches, but it's necessary. Protect yourself wisely. Establish healthy boundaries and build walls where needed. While there’s much talk about tearing down walls, it’s equally important to discuss building them. Walls exist for a reason: to ensure not everyone gains unrestricted access to your life.
Be on guard for leeches—they may come from the places you least expect. And if you recognize yourself as a leech, it’s time to change.
Don’t be a leech or Don't be leech... anyways DBL.
